Is it okay for an 18 yr old male & 14 yr old girl to be friends?
He’s really really nice,(we met this summer on vacation in Northern California) and he was SOOO sweet and nice,he listened to me and he wasn’t skeevy or creepy,and we talked about how it’s gross if an 18 yr old dude and 14 yr old have sex and we agreed on Alot of topics and spent Alot of time alone on the beach together and we talk through text like evvvveeerry day,so do you think it’s wrong?
I live in NC and he said he’d come visit me sometime and teach me how to ride a motorcycle!I’m so excited haha,he also hugged me really tight when he left,& he’s really hot lololololololol but he has a gf,but he told me when we met that he didn’t,but then on Facebook when he added me I saw all over his wall she wrote like,"I love you baby:)" and it said they were in a relationship
Do you think this is wrong,& do you think he didn’t tell me he was in a relationship for a reason??
THANKS!!!:)
Its fine if your FRIENDS but nothing more, But to me (18 year old girl) its kind of weird that an 18 year old male would even want to be friends with a 14 year old girl. Its kind of creepy, because most 18 year old guys are only interested in girls they can have sex with, and he may just be sucking up to you to get in your pants. Think critically about situations like this ALWAYS, What 18 year old guy would want to be friends with a 14 year old girl, none that I know. And as for the girlfriend, if the subject of a girlfriend/boyfriend came up and he said he didn’t have one then it was most likely a charade in hopes of getting in your pants, but if that subject didn’t come up he probably just didn’t see a reason to bring it up.
I personally see something like this as wrong. again what 18 year old wants to be friends with a 14 year old? It seems extremely strange to me, I personally wouldn’t trust it. In a parental view this would be incredibly wrong, and as for a relationship with him if it happened and you two had sex he could go to jail for rape, because even if you say yes by law he raped you.
I’m not trying to be a b*tch i’m being honest.
