ugh he’s proposing. this sucks!?
my dad has a newish girlfriend that welli really dont like. sometimes i like her but not when she’s around my dad. she’s actually really cool when they’re not together. but i can’t stand either of them when they are because literally all they do is make out..all the time! they run off when were out in public to hide from us to make out. i want my dad to be happy but he’s obsessed, everything we do he invites her, even to go grocery shopping he tells her to go and then when they run into each other they put on a fake little act that they had no clue each other was going grocery shopping. also one time when he got home from work he was like "guess what!!!" and i asked what and he said "tracy finally got her e-mail set up!"…? wow like i really care, it’s not like i’m going to e-mail her… me and my dad used to be really close because he’s changed a lot since he started dating her. he never has time for me and he’s gotten really mean lately, especially when they’re together, he threatened to smack me one night because me and tracy were talking during one of his shows, he didn’t get mad at her for talking but he threatened to hit me which he has NEVER done. one time me and him were supposed to go out and do dinner and a movie just me and him and we were gonna take the motorcycle because that was always our thing, riding on the motorcycle but then at last minute tracy pulls up and i was third freakin wheel the whole time, which was gayy. but this morning my sister told me that last night my dad told her he plans on proposing to tracy on vacation which is in 28 days
he doesn’t even plan on telling me. he told her he’s not saying anything to anyone else until vacation. i dont want them to get married but i know there’s nothing i can do but it really sucks because now we’ll probably move because what engaged couple doensn’t live together? and it will probably be where she wants ![]()
ughh. i hate this..
how do i cope with it?
I don’t know your age, but for sure you’re not going to be living with your dad your whole life. At some point you’re going to find your special "someone", fall in love & you’ll be the one moving. No, it’s not going to be tomorrow, but just think of it that you’re not going to be around your dad forever. But doesn’t he too deserve some happiness in his life? I know there’s friction between you & her at times, but in a way you could be happy your dad at least is not going to be left alone. Just try your best, honey, to remember it’s not "forever" & that one of these days you’ll be on your own. He no doubt knows how the two of you get along together & that’s the reason he’s not saying anything before he gets engaged. He just doesn’t want to hear it before he asks her so he’s keeping it quiet. Evidently your sister isn’t having the "problems" you are with her, that’s why he told her. By all rites he shouldn’t have honestly told her & not you too, but I’m sure you know the reason for it regardless. I hope things straighten out for all of you & you can all get along a lot happier.^
